I remember my first day at school in Brooklyn. I was 9 yrs old, 4th grade. When i step into the classroom, i was in a new environment and in a different culture. Everyone was a different ethnic, kids has no uniform, they look so relax. This did not look like where i’ve came from. As i gaze across the room, i see one Chinese looking girl, i thought this could be my first friend. Not too sure how it happen but she offer to show me around school. It was all so new so fresh to me, the place, the people, the culture, everything.
Half way through the day in class i had to pee. Not sure how am i going to ask the teacher. I waited for someone to ask. As i waited and waited i can’t hold anymore so i raise my hand and said teacher can i go to the toilet? Everyone laugh at me. Why was everyone laughing at me? The teacher said, may i use the bathroom, not toilet. In the America no one refers to the restrooms as toilets. When you say toilet it would mean the toilet bowl itself. So then i realize that everyone uses bathroom not toilets. In general they call it restrooms. Casually just bathroom will do and no one uses loo, that would be British.
Second thing that happen on my first day is, i was call to read a paragraph. I stood up and started reading, everyone giggled at me. I look around and don’t understand why is everyone snickering. The teacher ask me to sit down. I can read sitting down, don’t have to stand. In Asia students have to stand to read or when you have to dictate something. It’s a form of respect. I fell so embarrassed, when you stand your the center of attention. Worst of all the kids were laughing at you.
It wasn’t too bad as i was English educated since i was born. Just gotta learn the new expressions and pronunciation. The first one was the no. 3. How do you say that my teacher asked? 3 i said. The teacher said no no it’s three not tree. I repeated after hear i still got tree. She told me to put my tongue in between my two front teeth. And i got three! Yeah! I had to get use to the slang and words everyone was using. Before i knew it, i blend in. I guess i was young and easily absorb to the new culture.
By the time i was in 5th grade, i was elected as the class president, member of the glee club and always on the top of my spelling quiz. Remember the Chinese looking girl i first met? She of course became my friend. Not just my friend, she became my best friend until now. She was my first friend when i step foot in Brooklyn and she will be visiting me in Sept, next month. We are very excited to meet up as we lost contact for about 10+ years. Back in the days, we use to do everything together. I really mean everything. We had our first dates together, learn skating together, start Jr. high together, the list can go on and on. Can’t wait to see her!
Till next time…