There are some things i don’t seem to understand is when a guy already knows the girl is not interested, he still continues to pursue the girl and hope perhaps that she will change her mind later? If you asked me, i think it’s a load of crap. Once again, which part of the signal did the guy not understand? I’m beginning to sound longgg winded. She already indicated that she’s not interested but STILL he continues courting her.
Why? I don’t know i’m not a guy. Maybe some of the guys out there can answer my question.
To me it’s simply irritating. This is when the girl just want to shake a guy off and she’s unable to do so. That leaves her no choice but to be mean which is a difficult thing to do.
What it seems like the guy continues to pursue the girl and “hopes” that she will change her mind later. In some cases maybe, but in many cases it may not. If there’s an attraction and chemistry it should happen now and not later. Persisting will just make the girl repelled. It’s better to leave it the way it is at least you can still be friends. If you are wondering what if she’s interested in the future? No worries she will come back and initiate. What do you have to lose ?
What is your opinion? It’s good to hear from both sides and see what are your views.
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The first sign she’s not interested, I’ll be finding ways to walk off.
Her loss. Not mine. NEEEEXT!
Has she actually told her that she is not interested to his face?
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Some guys are just dumb. There, I said it.
Some have dumb friends. The guy consoles his friends and all his friend conclude to continue chasing her since he still has chance and by still having chance are the most obvious reasons.
Besides dumb, there are some who’re plain thick skinned because they watch too many TV series or movies. ROFL!
And yes, some guys won’t get it until they get it in their face. And I don’t mean rejection in his face, more like even if he gets together with her he soon (very soon) learns he’s not compatible with her (or her friends).
That’s the story of guys who are persistent at times.
Danny: finally there’s a guy that understand what i’ve been trying to say. It’s true they watch too much tv series cuz most of the time there will be a happy ending. Ding dong! reality bites. Some just want to keep living in their fantasy. What i see is that a lot of guys want to get it in their face. They will feel satisfy after the truth has been said. They don’t want to assume, they want to hear it.
Some guys like challenges. The harder it is to get you, the more persistent they gonna be.
My friend’s case is even worse. The girl is attached. Yet, my guy friend pursued. The girl is somewhat interested in my guy friend so she gave in to his chase at the same time, maintaining another man on the other end.
I told this girl off. I said – if you want this guy, you better break off with the other one. I think she is just a bitch because she didn’t break up with the boyfriend, and played along this game till it got a bit out of hand.. and ended up, telling my guy friend to go away.
I advised this guy too that, if she didn’t want to break up with the current boyfriend, might as well don’t waste your time.
In his exact words, “If I don’t try, I would never know if it will work.”
At least he had come to his senses and moved on with his life.
Gina: Your friend is a bitch and there are a lot of bitches out there, i know a few myself. At times can’t blame either side, they both asked for it. If you want to play the game, be ready to accept who will get “played” at the end.
play what? play chess is it?