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Usually when someone does not want to be with you they would just disappear and hope that you will eventually forget about them. My friend went on with her life but feel sad at the same time. It’s like getting over a break up. The thing that tick me off is that, she did not even have a relationship with him. This is what happens when you jump into the sack with someone so early and with the blink of an eye, they just dissapear. Guess what sister? they just want to get into your pants. Either you play them first or else you will get played by them. It’s just another game.
A few months passed and she met someone new. After a few weeks the guy show interest in her. But she was still thinking about the other guy. She tried giving the new guy a chance. They went on a date but she was still fickle minded. The guy treated her very well. Drive her everywhere, accompany her shopping, etc. She knew he would be the better guy to be with, but still she was still thinking about the bad boy.
The question was wondering in her head. Should she go with the one that treat her right or still wait for the one that’s lingering her? What if he came back? What if he is ready for a relationship? There were just so many questions unanswered. At the end of the day she reject the nice guy and decided to wait for the bad boy. Guess what happen?
Nothing! What was she waiting for? She really think that he will come back to her when he is ready? All those so call reasons he gave her was just another polite way of saying after sleeping with you i don’t want a relationship but it was nice while it lasted. It wasn’t a big loss as she did not find any chemistry with the nice guy.
If anyone had pass out a chance for a nice guy for a bad boy, in my opinion it is not worth it. The reality is, thinking and hoping the other party will come back for you is…… near to zero. Why not open you eyes and see who is in front of you and cherish that opportunity that is knocking at your door. It may not be someone that is up to your expectation but the least they are the one that is sincere 
Till next time…
Asian with a new yorker attitude. Born in Malaysia and grew up in New York City. I was a shy baby, mischievous teenager, curious adult, passionate entrepreneur, smart mouth wife and now a loving mom ^_^ Had the greatest time from East to West and all around the world. Love to travel and i believe the world is just too big, don't under estimate anything. Have an open mind and you never know what it can bring or take you. When you are old, you can reminisce and said to yourself, you have done it all. Live your life to the fullest and with no regrets! This blog is about what "inspires me" and what i'm passionate about. My fusion and not so conventional ways of child care and my passion for makeup. Sharing my experience and thoughts. I'm still overwhelm that i'm a mom now and i'm an aspiring make up artist. i like to call it "baby & beauty blog
First cut is the deepest. People in love lah.. it’s like that one. No matter what you try to tell her, she will still long for the bad boy.
I dunno why ah.. is it an in-built thing in females? I find there are quite a lot of women fancy men who treat them like door mat. Why ah? Women are suckers for bad personalities? Haha!
It’s one of those feelings, the girls just want to be the “one” to tame the tiger. In fact i have a good friend that is married to one and “still” trying to tame the tiger
roar!!!
Free yourselves from the shackles of sanity.
Hoho! Very well said.. =)
and you’ve got a very interesting blog going here…