Sometime ago i remember my girl friend telling me about this guy she likes. She met him through her friends. They seldom talk as he was among his friends a brother like figure. Since they hang out with the same group of friends she sees him from time to time with just a hi at the beginning and a bye when she leaves. Until one day while having drinks at a bar he actually came and talk to her. Nothing much just a casual chat. After that night, she secretly fell for him. She didn’t know what happen, why all of a sudden she feel that way, it was because of that night, she got to know him a little better. While they were having drinks, she sees that his small gesture made her feel he was such a perfect gentleman. After that she admired him.
They started talking more often when they meet. Eventually became friendly and joke around. It was not as distant as before. Until one day while having drinks again they started flirting with each other. One thing lead to another, guess what happen? Ya……………………………………………….
They did it! This is what alcohol does to you. It could be the excuse, it also could be the reason. She woke up in his room and thought to herself, did i just became his girlfriend? She did not thought of it happening this way but she’s not complaining either. She likes him. After that, he send her home and told her he would call her later. 1 day 2 days, no call. She would text him but he would reply in wee hours in the morning telling her he was busy with work. She excepted it and of course wanted to be a understanding girlfriend.
I forgot how many days she waited. She would call me and tell me stories and will be over analyzing, giving excuses to him etc. After few weeks,it came across to her that, is he trying to avoid her. She saw him less and kept on saying that he has to travel a lot for work. It came clearer to her one day when he went to a company trip and said that they should have a talk after he return. She waited patiently for him. Finally that day came, he drove her out and they had the talk in his car. He told her that he was not ready for a relatonship (oldest trick in the book, c’mon!). There was a lot of things going in his life now that it’s not suitable for a relationship (2nd oldest trick in the book). He was sorry what he did that night and he was in the heat of the moment (he didn’t think of that when he wanted to get into her pants). After he cleared the air he drove her home. Left her heart broken, lost and feeling incredibly stupid.
This is longer than i thought and now i have to do a part 2. Sorry people, i’m really tired and i need to take a nap now. To be continue …
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Well.. a man would say anything, do anything just to get into your pants.. so girls have to be extra careful. A man who is really crazy about you surprisingly would not rush to get you to bed.
To some people, when they like someone they would give all sort of excuses for that person’s behavior. That’s the thing that gets to me, just feel like slapping them silly so that they can see what is reality.
Yes.. living in denial. When one is drown in the sea of love – even the poo of his/her love interest will smell just as sweet. Yeah… it gets on my nerves too when one kept giving excuses for the unacceptable behavior of someone they love. We can’t do anything but advise. It’s up to them to realize how silly they were, in the end. This is called life experience.