By: fallen angel

I used to have a friend that is really sweet and nice. She can’t say no to anything and will just entertain anything that comes her way. I would classify her as a attractive girl. She is someone that can dress well and has a killer body. I didn’t say pretty cause she’s a average looking gal but knows how to enhance her looks. Of course she has no problems with the guys. From time to time the guys would call her or text her to flirt. She would entertain when she has time and she would still entertain when she has no time. Why? simply she can’t say no.

We had a mutual friend and he found out that she was working in the same company as him. He was a vice president in the company from his department. He look through the company directory and found her direct line extension and called her. They had a casual conversation, he got her number and mention that they should do lunch one day. One week later he text her saying that if she was free to do lunch on Wednesday? So she said ok, i’ll meet u up front and they can go across the street for lunch. Since they are just acquaintance’s they have lot’s to talk about. After that day he started to text her constantly. Obviously he started to court her. She would tell me stories about him and his text messages, phone calls etc.

Courting period

Almost once a week he would ask her out for lunch. After the second time she did lunch with him, she find him boring and uninteresting. She thought to herself that, it was nothing and just a friendly lunch with a friend and a so call colleague. Not too long after that she had to attend her schoolmate wedding at a not so near by state. It so happen that it was his hometown. He offer to drive her there and at the same time he can visit his parents. She rejected the offer and claim that she will be taking the bus with her other girl friends that’s attending the wedding. After that he offered to drive her back since he was going back to his hometown on the same weekend. She told him it was not necessary. When she told me this i told her that he was after her and she should be careful and not simply entertain his friendly gesture. He might misunderstood and take it as if you were giving him a chance. She kept on telling me that it was nothing but just a friendly gesture since he goes back and visit his parents. Alrighty then.

Her birthday

Since they work in the same company he found out that her birthday was coming up. He then invite her for her birthday dinner. She told me she had to accept, since someone is inviting you to celebrate your birthday it wouldn’t be nice to reject him (my advice she should not have gone to the dinner cause it is a special day and you should not simply spend it with just anyone, by going you are implying that you don’t mind). He took her to a nice restaurant chit chat and call it a night. She told me half way through the chat her mind went blind didn’t even know what he was saying. One of those moments when you looking at the person and your mind just wonder else where (hehe, usually you will see this image in a movie). After that birthday dinner she told me that she realize that ok…. he is after me. She ask me how to get him to stop or simply how to just reject him. She is just not the type of girl that will just say it in your face (most girls are very polite, i mention it in few of my other post). Saying it in his face is just not the right way to do it. The guy might just throw back, i’m not courting you, don’t be so conceited so that he can save face. I advice her that she should stop her lunches and just stop having any sort of communication with him and hope that he will get the message. He text her as usual asking her for lunches dinners and causal messages at night. She started to give him excuses that she was busy with work that she had to eat in the office and ignore his messages at night. I don’t think he got the message from her actions.

His birthday

Until one day he text telling her that his birthday was coming up and it was her turn to treat him for his birthday dinner. There was no running away. She had to treat him in return. Since it was his birthday he even imply that he wants to spend it with someone special. Ding dong! didn’t she get it ? She was that someone special. She told me she is just going to do this dinner one last time cause she owes him and planned to call it quits. We planned the dinner together. She is just going for a quick dinner and was supposed to meet me right after. Her “excuse” to leave early. I didn’t know which restaurant there were going and i made plans with my friends for dinner and dancing after that and she would meet me for dancing after her dinner with him. When i was having my dinner i needed to use the bathroom and i saw her on the way to the bathroom. What a coincidence! immediately she smile and i knew it, i will need to save her out of that crappy date she was in (even though i was suppose to save her later but this is even better). I said hi to them and ask them to join me and my friends, she quickly said yes! They finish their main course and was just having dessert. They join me and my friends. From two person became a group outing. He also join us for our dancing session later that night (he dances too, that’s how he was our mutual friend).

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